Boundaries: What Is and Isn’t Appropriate in a Care Relationship

Boundaries: What Is and Isn’t Appropriate in a Care Relationship

At LIVEWELL, we value the meaningful relationships that can grow between families and Care Partners. That said, this is a professional care relationship, and it’s important to maintain healthy boundaries to protect both your family and the Care Partner — and to preserve the integrity of care.


Healthy and Appropriate Interactions

  • Treat your Care Partner with kindness and respect

  • Communicate clearly about expectations for each shift

  • Share information that helps your child receive better care (e.g., routines, preferences, communication tips)

  • Respect their time by sticking to scheduled hours

  • Contact LIVEWELL for changes, support needs, or concerns


What Crosses a Boundary

Even if your care partner is warm, caring, or feels “like family,” the following actions are not appropriate in a professional caregiving relationship:

  • Asking about their personal life (relationships, finances, family issues, etc.)

  • Inviting them to family gatherings or holidays

  • Asking them to stay after their shift “just to hang out”

  • Treating them as a babysitter or expecting them to supervise siblings

  • Relying on them to be available outside of scheduled hours

  • Assigning tasks unrelated to the client or outside their scope (e.g., running errands for the parent)

These situations can unintentionally create pressure or discomfort for the Care Partner and blur the lines of professionalism.


Why Boundaries Matter

Maintaining clear boundaries helps:

  • Protect the comfort and privacy of both the Care Partner and your family

  • Promote consistency, fairness, and accountability

  • Prevent misunderstandings or situations that could impact services or payroll

  • Ensure care remains focused on your child’s needs, not personal dynamics


Tips for Maintaining Healthy Boundaries

  • Use LIVEWELL as the go-to for questions, support, or staffing issues — not the Care Partner directly

  • Avoid texting or calling Care Partners outside of shift-related updates

  • Keep conversations focused on your child’s care

  • If you feel unsure whether a request is appropriate, ask LIVEWELL first


Questions?

If you're ever unsure about a situation or want help navigating expectations, reach out to the LIVEWELL team.

Submit a support ticket at www.lwhcare.com or call us directly at (310) 776–7091.
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